You got the thinking backwards, just move away to a different chat service and tells your social circle about the move. This will auto-filter those who actuall

You got the thinking backwards, just move away to a different chat service and tells your social circle about the move. This will auto-filter those who actually care and really are part of your circle from those who don't. If everybody just schlep along then nothing will ever change and you will continue to go to Abilene.