well so here is what I am doing instead... I get only a notion of the likes of the user, and since "everything else" is too huge a domain to consider as dislike

well so here is what I am doing instead... I get only a notion of the likes of the user, and since "everything else" is too huge a domain to consider as dislike, I try and rank the user's like concepts and pick the lower one's as the one's they like lesser. This only for initialization, and then I leave the filter to tune itself through feedback. I know it's not the best approach in the world, but let me see how this shapes up. Thanks of course, and any other ideas still welcome!