Maybe you should reach out to him and ask him if he'd like to catch coffee or dinner. Have a civil conversation and try to lay out your case plain and simple. Y

Maybe you should reach out to him and ask him if he'd like to catch coffee or dinner. Have a civil conversation and try to lay out your case plain and simple. You'll never get over your problem if you can't face your fears. Once you confront the object of your misery, you will be able to overcome it. And then on the way back to the car you can kill him in the parking lot