I was thinking, "no way I'm going to try to move a 5 person single income family to SF on a raise that doesn't cover the difference in cost of living" Then I r

I was thinking, "no way I'm going to try to move a 5 person single income family to SF on a raise that doesn't cover the difference in cost of living" Then I realized, I'm almost 40, no startup wants to hire my geriatric ass.