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In real life when I engage with one friend about a topic his friend who I don't know doesn't step in and start attacking me.
by ovulator 10y ago
In real life when I engage with one friend about a topic his friend who I don't know doesn't step in and start attacking me.
- seanwilson 10y agoReally? Pretty sure this is common in group conversations if you talk about divisive topics like politics, nuclear power, GM food, vaccinations etc. I guess with Facebook the group is a lot bigger though.
- sanderjd 10y agoYeah I think the point is that in real life it's easy to have a quiet conversation with your friend without a bunch of other people chiming in.
- voidifremoved 10y agoIn real life it is possible to judge the mood of a group and avoid or defuse contentious situations. In addition, such groups are usually transient. Real people, especially friends of friends or other passing acquaintances, don't usually follow you home, and then to work the next day, and the next, constantly telling you why your opinion is wrong. Online, there is no escape short of opting out entirely. In all, social media gives a megaphone to strident opinions, and has a chilling effect on everyone else.