The point is that my phone is with me, so If i'm in the shower, the phone isn't 300 miles away, so if the phone says it's home, it's significantly more reliable

The point is that my phone is with me, so If i'm in the shower, the phone isn't 300 miles away, so if the phone says it's home, it's significantly more reliable than an IR sensor which will say i'm not home because i was out of sight for 15 minutes in the shower (or perhaps sitting on the toilet for that time, during which all the lights in my house turn off, my PC powers down, my doors lock, my thermostat goes into "away" mode, the water heater goes into "vacation mode", etc...) I've had IR light switches before, not only do they have tons of false positives (I ended up removing it because I would roll over in bed and the lights would turn on at 1AM...), but they have a significant number of false negatives (I can't count the number of times i've had to stand up and wave at the damn thing like a crazy person to get it to turn the light on because it shut it off on me when i was sitting reading). I also have 2 of them as part of my "home automation" system, and they are mostly useless. You say they are good at telling people from pets, but my 2 small cats set them off about 30-50 times a day, and if I point them up to where they don't go off that often any more, they won't go off for people at that point. And like I said above, this isn't just "turns some lights on for a few minutes", this is turning the thermostat on/off, turning the water heater on/off, lights, locks, doors, tvs, computers, fans, speakers, etc... And they STILL don't solve the other issues. What about notifications when someone enters/leaves the house? What about pre-heating/cooling the house when i'm close to home? what about external camera access? what about the alerts about water leakage, or gas usage while i'm not home? or the notification that I left oven on? Why try to "reduce attack surface" of my door lock, when it's feet away from a window? I personally think a lock which sends a notification when used, or IoT devices which notify when used and nobody is home is magnitudes more "secure" than a dumb lock which will do nothing while all of my stuff is stolen. Telling me I don't need those things isn't a "solution", it's letting perfect be the enemy of good.