Privately finding a public spat amusing does not hurt anyone. It's a very human response. The problem is thinking that you are above it and looking down on peop

Privately finding a public spat amusing does not hurt anyone. It's a very human response. The problem is thinking that you are above it and looking down on people who are more in touch with their emotional responses. People who are not in touch with the unsavory parts of themselves set themselves up for depression and worse.