"the entire focus" No, just a bigger priority than the least important item on whatever busy schedule you have. If you can't fit your kids into the schedule, a

"the entire focus" No, just a bigger priority than the least important item on whatever busy schedule you have. If you can't fit your kids into the schedule, and your solution is to half-ass your kids instead of half-assing or downsizing your schedule, then your priorities are wrong.