I think this is a cultural misunderstanding. An employer might tell me what to do while I'm at work, working on something that creates value for the company. Co

I think this is a cultural misunderstanding. An employer might tell me what to do while I'm at work, working on something that creates value for the company. Communicating with third parties out of work, when I'm not speaking for the company - I don't agree, unless it's actually illegal or harassing etc.