when you are single the decision can be very easy, when you are married and even better with children it isn't so cut and dry. you factor in things like, your

when you are single the decision can be very easy, when you are married and even better with children it isn't so cut and dry. you factor in things like, your spouses commute, do you like your child's schools, and more. throw in benefits, position, and seniority, and moves may suddenly incur expenses not seen on the onset. my job has changed locations so that my commute is now six more miles that what it used to be but I would be loathe to change jobs because my commute is still "me" time and not stressing me