> Beliefs by their very nature can be very hard to live by. Should we remove them all? Where do we draw the line? A fair question, and one we must each ultimat

> Beliefs by their very nature can be very hard to live by. Should we remove them all? Where do we draw the line? A fair question, and one we must each ultimately answer for ourselves. I'm glad your choices worked out for you. I had a number of sexual relationships before I got married. While there are certainly some particular encounters and entanglements I regret -- more the ones where I caused pain than where I felt pain -- there were also several I look back on fondly. Even though we weren't right for each other for the long run, we loved, we shared, we grew, and they are part of who I am now. I love my wife very much, but I'm still glad to have known others.