Sorry I got your name wrong, I'm a unix guy, so 'mv' is the natural choice for a 2 letters starting with 'm' :) I didn't accuse you of anything. You may feel

Sorry I got your name wrong, I'm a unix guy, so 'mv' is the natural choice for a 2 letters starting with 'm' :) I didn't accuse you of anything. You may feel right now that you're under attack, but if you read that post again in 6 months I believe you'll see I was trying to show you how your post looks 'from the outside'. I'm also trying to guide you towards happiness in a way that seems to work for pretty much everyone else regardless of money, house, career, gender, etc. Speaking of which, I'm glad you found my post amusing, because at least it means you read it and got some joy out of it, even if it wasn't the way I intended. I also didn't make any comments about you having low self-esteem. I don't know what you are replying to there. Next time someone tries to help, even if you don't like their words or the way they are trying to help, try not to attack back at them reflexively. Let the words settle a day or two before you reply and try to reply with the same spirit that the other person intended. You'll find it results in a happier life and greater opportunities for friendships and careers. Good luck resolving the homelessness and lack of cash. Since luck doesn't help much though, I just checked your profile and saw you mentioned a certificate in GIS. There are absolutely heaps of GIS jobs in Europe, and most will cover relocation: https://www.technojobs.co.uk/gis-jobs/europe https://www.technojobs.co.uk/gis-jobs/europe https://angel.co/europe/geographic-information-system-gis/jobs https://angel.co/europe/geographic-information-system-gis/jo... Returning to the theme of keeping perspective and matching your expectations from life and other people to be similar to that of your fellow humans. Right now I also don't have a home of my own, or a full time job, and I'm single. Despite that, I don't see any need to strike out at people offering sympathy or advice. Nor do I see myself as a 'loser in life' in any sense. There's a lot more to life than a house or money. I have friends, books/libraries, and internet and games are free, and oatmeal, bananas, tomatoes etc are pretty cheap. There's never been a better time in history to be poor and have too much time on your hands. You may not feel you have much control over your circumstances, but remember that you always have full control over how you react to those circumstances.