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You've conflated "controversial" with "attracting harassment", which I perceive as pretty much in line with your earlier defence of victim blaming. This is some

You've conflated "controversial" with "attracting harassment", which I perceive as pretty much in line with your earlier defence of victim blaming. This is something I reject outright as simply another angle chilling the speech of the victims of online harassment, instead of attenuating the bullies. I'm responsible for my own OpSec, but we both know that public registries have their own vulnerabilities. Again, I think I detect a misattribution of responsibility. Nevertheless that was a single example, not the entirety of the means by which personal information can be gleaned by the unscrupulous. My counter-position is that it is essential for we who have influence over systems design and policy to avoid unintended negative social consequences in the services we build.

mirimir 10y ago
If you want walled gardens, by all means build walled gardens. But don't imagine that you can prevent people from using other services. And talking about you.
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milesrout 10y ago
Again, you can sit around here complaining about 'victim blaming' all you want, but you aren't actually providing any real solutions. Thus you're just wasting everyone's time by doing so, including your own. It doesn't fucking matter whether it's victim blaming. Victim blaming is irrelevant. Being sent rude messages on the internet is a minor wrong, and so nobody is actually in any serious way a victim, and they do deserve to be blamed if they reveal their address or phone number or something on the internet, that's blatantly foolish and everyone has said that it is foolish and not to do it for decades. The reality is that the internet is not a one-way medium. Long gone are the days where you can just send and never receive. Well, that isn't even true, because you can send and never receive. What you can't do is take the 'send and never receive' attitude of old and try to apply it while also receiving. You can't pick and choose what messages you get. You can't, and you shouldn't try to. It's a loser's game. You will never succeed, thank the lord. Because there are those of us out there who don't want to have everything filtered and controlled by some algorithm that decides what is rude or not, and that's the reality of how Twitter or Facebook would be censored: the same algorithms that are used as justification for racial profiling and which produced the lovely Taylor Swift twitter bot that Microsoft had (which started spouting feminist propaganda as soon as they removed its learning abilities, I should add) would be used to censor Twitter and Facebook. If people's information is gleaned from whois records or whatever, then yes obviously that's terrible. If you go out of your way to protect your own privacy - or just don't foolishly reveal it to the world - and then it gets out anyway, obviously that's a bad thing and it's not your fault. What we're talking about are the people that use sites like Twitter, and then get upset when someone sends them a rude message on Twitter. We're not even talking about physical hate mail here people. We're talking about literally people getting messages on Twitter, getting offended, and writing patronising articles about it. If you choose to use that cesspool of a site, then you ARE asking for it.

mirimir 10y ago

If you want walled gardens, by all means build walled gardens. But don't imagine that you can prevent people from using other services. And talking about you.

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milesrout 10y ago

Again, you can sit around here complaining about 'victim blaming' all you want, but you aren't actually providing any real solutions. Thus you're just wasting everyone's time by doing so, including your own. It doesn't fucking matter whether it's victim blaming. Victim blaming is irrelevant. Being sent rude messages on the internet is a minor wrong, and so nobody is actually in any serious way a victim, and they do deserve to be blamed if they reveal their address or phone number or something on the internet, that's blatantly foolish and everyone has said that it is foolish and not to do it for decades. The reality is that the internet is not a one-way medium. Long gone are the days where you can just send and never receive. Well, that isn't even true, because you can send and never receive. What you can't do is take the 'send and never receive' attitude of old and try to apply it while also receiving. You can't pick and choose what messages you get. You can't, and you shouldn't try to. It's a loser's game. You will never succeed, thank the lord. Because there are those of us out there who don't want to have everything filtered and controlled by some algorithm that decides what is rude or not, and that's the reality of how Twitter or Facebook would be censored: the same algorithms that are used as justification for racial profiling and which produced the lovely Taylor Swift twitter bot that Microsoft had (which started spouting feminist propaganda as soon as they removed its learning abilities, I should add) would be used to censor Twitter and Facebook. If people's information is gleaned from whois records or whatever, then yes obviously that's terrible. If you go out of your way to protect your own privacy - or just don't foolishly reveal it to the world - and then it gets out anyway, obviously that's a bad thing and it's not your fault. What we're talking about are the people that use sites like Twitter, and then get upset when someone sends them a rude message on Twitter. We're not even talking about physical hate mail here people. We're talking about literally people getting messages on Twitter, getting offended, and writing patronising articles about it. If you choose to use that cesspool of a site, then you ARE asking for it.