I'm an older millennial (barely even in the group). My wife has a career and so do I. Plus we have a small child. It would certainly be easier if one of us stay

I'm an older millennial (barely even in the group). My wife has a career and so do I. Plus we have a small child. It would certainly be easier if one of us stayed home (not necessarily her). But I think it would be even better if we could both have a healthy work life balance.