An enlightening read. I would like to offer my own definition for success. Failure is easy to define, deviation from expected outcomes, suffering, etc. Succe

An enlightening read. I would like to offer my own definition for success. Failure is easy to define, deviation from expected outcomes, suffering, etc. Success is not the absence of failure. In this case success is a bright future with many options for the children. Success is integrating the children in to the culture of the new host country; this does not require forsaking their heritage, but it may mean becoming more or slightly different than it.