I didn't mean my response to come across so personal and pointed. Apologies. I was pushing back against the wider phenomenon of telling people to clam up and s

I didn't mean my response to come across so personal and pointed. Apologies. I was pushing back against the wider phenomenon of telling people to clam up and stay disengaged when confronted with pain or discomfort in the people they care about. It's (perhaps ironically) a very narrow perspective that undermines people accepting and understanding one another.