I feel the same with respect to being "just you." On a personal level, I can't relate to people whose sense of identity is strongly tied to any aspect of themse

I feel the same with respect to being "just you." On a personal level, I can't relate to people whose sense of identity is strongly tied to any aspect of themselves that's outside of their control---whether that's their race, sex, family, birthplace, etc. At the same time, I thing loads of people feel that way, and I'm in the minority. It's something I've tried to make myself more conscious of throughout my life... I've definitely been less sensitive than I should have been with respect to this sort of thing.