Oh dear sounds like you have missed some of the subtle clues here. Wasn't taking about your "ethnic" culture. It's the unwritten rules of professional jobs i.e

Oh dear sounds like you have missed some of the subtle clues here. Wasn't taking about your "ethnic" culture. It's the unwritten rules of professional jobs i.e. read a broadsheet and not a tabloid paper - this is what the infamous "The Unofficial Goldman Sachs Guide To Being A Man" is all about. BTW I went to a bog standard comprehensive and did not go to Uni