The thought that kept circulating in my mind as I read this was, "If it's safe, sane, and consensual, why is it anyone else's business?" Useful rule of thumb:

The thought that kept circulating in my mind as I read this was, "If it's safe, sane, and consensual, why is it anyone else's business?" Useful rule of thumb: If you are an outsider to other peoples' relationships, you probably don't get to judge the fairness of the relationship. Err on the side of respect.