Why do only men have to lower their standards? From what I see amongst my peers, the guys have lower standards than women do. These aren't guys who don't "put m

Why do only men have to lower their standards? From what I see amongst my peers, the guys have lower standards than women do. These aren't guys who don't "put more effort in" either. See Tinder for example. Most guys have a hard enough time getting matches but one male-model looking guy can easily have hundreds. The modern dating reality for men is winner-take-all.