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I think when most people offer "be yourself" they actually mean "don't pretend to be someone you're not".
by L_226 10y ago
I think when most people offer "be yourself" they actually mean "don't pretend to be someone you're not".
- vecter 10y agoI don't necessarily disagree, but it's still bad advice because: (1) The point you just made isn't clear at all and (2) It's not actionable whatsoever and gives the wrong impression that you don't actually need to do something, when the reality is the complete opposite and you do need to make major changes to your life and approach to dating The proper advice is to improve yourself, work on your confidence, and understand female psychology. How to do that is not trivial, but once you read and learn more about it, it's not that complicated either.