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Don't bother with online dating. First of all the quality of women is much lower than any you'd meet IRL. Secondly, they purposefully set absurdly high standard
by lumberjack 10y ago
Don't bother with online dating. First of all the quality of women is much lower than any you'd meet IRL. Secondly, they purposefully set absurdly high standards. Thirdly, if physical looks aren't your strong point, you cannot really make a good impression because that is what they are going to be judging you on. What you write in your profile is close to useless
If you have trouble finding women, move to a big city and start working on meeting people. It's pretty much a numbers game for men of average/below-average looks.
- cgb223 10y agoAs someone who just moved to a big city and has been waiting for an excuse to ditch Tinder, what activities or events would you recommend to do to meet people?
- lumberjack 10y agoMeetup.com always has interesting events.
- rak00n 10y agoNope. Not everywhere.
- pmoriarty 10y agoIt also varies a lot depending on what one considers interesting. In my own experience, 90% of meetup.com (like 90% of everything) is crap. Occasionally, in a large metropolitan area with a large online presence, there's a bit of interest to be eked out of it for me, but mostly not.
- valuearb 10y agoYea, none of this true. The best application of the numbers game is to message a dozen girls a day online, and it works.
- toodlebunions 10y agoIt's absolutely a numbers game. Increase your exposure for best results.