ask lots of intelligent women from western Pennsylvania...every single relative asking you why you're planning to go to college instead of getting pregnant like

ask lots of intelligent women from western Pennsylvania...every single relative asking you why you're planning to go to college instead of getting pregnant like your sister. I was born in western PA. Yes, this was a thing there when I was growing up. In both cases, people are probably just being subject to their culture. They may not even think they are being aggressive or doing harm. They may even be virtue signalling from their point of view.