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I'd say that the narrative that the women knew what they were getting themselves into, given their behavior in the original story, does seem to make more sense

I'd say that the narrative that the women knew what they were getting themselves into, given their behavior in the original story, does seem to make more sense to me. However, that doesn't make it any less commendable that they may have been given an at least temporary reprieve from the abuse of human trafficking and prostitution. What they choose to do with it is now their decision to make.

Vivtek 16y ago
Oh, come on, they're like 18 years old and are going to the United States! They still think they're immortal, and even if they anticipate that there might be some sex involved, they think they'd be glamor stars. Instead, they'd be crack junkies for a couple of years, and thrown out into the alley when they were used up, and there is no way in hell that any 18-year-old - or 30-year-old - would "know what they were getting themselves into". If that were the case, this would never happen to anybody. That's the pernicious nature of human trafficking in the first place.
- WiseWeasel 16y ago
  The post's author was implying that they may have grown up in an environment where they really did know what to expect, and I'd agree that it is a possibility, as uncomfortable as that may be to ponder. Who knows what these particular 18-year-olds were expecting; just because you may have been naive about the world's seedy underbelly at 18 doesn't mean everyone else must have been. It's easy for us to fall into a cultural narrative specific to our community, and believe that it must be the same for everyone else.
  - Vivtek 16y ago
    Sure, because Russian chicks always expect to be crack whores by the time they're 22. Right. They knew exactly what they were getting into, so you don't need to worry about it - they're only Russian, after all, where this sort of thing happens every day. WiseWeasel, the post's author is wrong. My wife is Eastern European, and I can assure you that Russian 18-year-olds are just as stupid when it comes to life risk as anybody else.
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  - WiseWeasel 16y ago
    Re: Vivtek: I'm just saying that there's a decent chance that they knew they were at high risk of ending up working as strippers at the very least when they agreed to the deal, and either they chose to go through with the "job interview" with the intention of joining that line of work, or they were just looking for something temporary with other plans. The fact that they're Russian has nothing to do with it, but the fact that they're willing to travel that far to another country for a dubious job position, and then actually go through with some weird interview in a nightclub at midnight, does seem more questionable to me than the possibility that they were at least somewhat aware of what they were doing. Maybe that's just my cynicism for media coverage, and naive hope for human intelligence.
    - Vivtek 16y ago
      I'm absolutely sure they knew there was sex and stripping involved, and I'm equally sure they have no idea what that actually means. They probably know there's no future in stripping in Moscow, but I would guess they think everybody in New York shops on Fifth Avenue, and if sex gets them that, what's the harm? I think you're sadly underestimating how shocked Eastern Europeans can be when confronted with the reality of America. Especially 18-year-olds. And even if they "knew what they were getting into" in terms of there being sex, that still doesn't touch what human trafficking is about, which is a slow and steady process of degradation. They'd give up their passports, they'd never see actual money, and the first hit of crack or heroin is always free at some rich guy's party - but pretty soon, it's not free, they're increasingly in debt, they feel trapped (and are trapped) and they think there's nobody in hell who will help an ugly, crack-addicted, no-longer-so-pretty woman. So either you think Russians, or non-Americans, or whoever, "know what they're getting into" in that situation, and it's just fine, or you haven't thought it through. I'm banking on the latter. This is not a question of human intelligence. We've all gotten into situations where a flashy fast talker got us into something that trapped us - ever had a cubicle job with a software consulting shop? Our monkey brains always fall for that crap, which is why this particular story was so heartening - somebody actually stopped it before it started, and that's fantastic. As I said earlier, Bingo's attitude was half humorous, half assholery - I wish he'd stopped at just the humorous half. Sure, maybe this particular nightclub with sex ads where a mysterious guy wanted two 18-year-olds without much English to meet him at midnight for an interview after another job "fell through" and they were in another city wasn't a human trafficking situation. Given the preponderance of flashing red flags, though, I'm damn happy we didn't give this benefactor the benefit of the doubt, even if the club itself had lots of prosperous young people attending.

Vivtek 16y ago

Oh, come on, they're like 18 years old and are going to the United States! They still think they're immortal, and even if they anticipate that there might be some sex involved, they think they'd be glamor stars. Instead, they'd be crack junkies for a couple of years, and thrown out into the alley when they were used up, and there is no way in hell that any 18-year-old - or 30-year-old - would "know what they were getting themselves into". If that were the case, this would never happen to anybody. That's the pernicious nature of human trafficking in the first place.

WiseWeasel 16y ago
The post's author was implying that they may have grown up in an environment where they really did know what to expect, and I'd agree that it is a possibility, as uncomfortable as that may be to ponder. Who knows what these particular 18-year-olds were expecting; just because you may have been naive about the world's seedy underbelly at 18 doesn't mean everyone else must have been. It's easy for us to fall into a cultural narrative specific to our community, and believe that it must be the same for everyone else.
- Vivtek 16y ago
  Sure, because Russian chicks always expect to be crack whores by the time they're 22. Right. They knew exactly what they were getting into, so you don't need to worry about it - they're only Russian, after all, where this sort of thing happens every day. WiseWeasel, the post's author is wrong. My wife is Eastern European, and I can assure you that Russian 18-year-olds are just as stupid when it comes to life risk as anybody else.
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- WiseWeasel 16y ago
  Re: Vivtek: I'm just saying that there's a decent chance that they knew they were at high risk of ending up working as strippers at the very least when they agreed to the deal, and either they chose to go through with the "job interview" with the intention of joining that line of work, or they were just looking for something temporary with other plans. The fact that they're Russian has nothing to do with it, but the fact that they're willing to travel that far to another country for a dubious job position, and then actually go through with some weird interview in a nightclub at midnight, does seem more questionable to me than the possibility that they were at least somewhat aware of what they were doing. Maybe that's just my cynicism for media coverage, and naive hope for human intelligence.
  - Vivtek 16y ago
    I'm absolutely sure they knew there was sex and stripping involved, and I'm equally sure they have no idea what that actually means. They probably know there's no future in stripping in Moscow, but I would guess they think everybody in New York shops on Fifth Avenue, and if sex gets them that, what's the harm? I think you're sadly underestimating how shocked Eastern Europeans can be when confronted with the reality of America. Especially 18-year-olds. And even if they "knew what they were getting into" in terms of there being sex, that still doesn't touch what human trafficking is about, which is a slow and steady process of degradation. They'd give up their passports, they'd never see actual money, and the first hit of crack or heroin is always free at some rich guy's party - but pretty soon, it's not free, they're increasingly in debt, they feel trapped (and are trapped) and they think there's nobody in hell who will help an ugly, crack-addicted, no-longer-so-pretty woman. So either you think Russians, or non-Americans, or whoever, "know what they're getting into" in that situation, and it's just fine, or you haven't thought it through. I'm banking on the latter. This is not a question of human intelligence. We've all gotten into situations where a flashy fast talker got us into something that trapped us - ever had a cubicle job with a software consulting shop? Our monkey brains always fall for that crap, which is why this particular story was so heartening - somebody actually stopped it before it started, and that's fantastic. As I said earlier, Bingo's attitude was half humorous, half assholery - I wish he'd stopped at just the humorous half. Sure, maybe this particular nightclub with sex ads where a mysterious guy wanted two 18-year-olds without much English to meet him at midnight for an interview after another job "fell through" and they were in another city wasn't a human trafficking situation. Given the preponderance of flashing red flags, though, I'm damn happy we didn't give this benefactor the benefit of the doubt, even if the club itself had lots of prosperous young people attending.