"That doesn't mean you bash Mayer for playing by the rules that society has set up." So "don't hate the player, hate the game"? I've never agreed with that id

"That doesn't mean you bash Mayer for playing by the rules that society has set up." So "don't hate the player, hate the game"? I've never agreed with that idea. The "players" are adults who are perfectly capable of taking responsibility for their own actions.