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>The rules that Steve laid out do not actually put pressure on people To paraphrase what someone else said, "If a person is saying you're pressuring them, it's
by Asooka 10y ago
>The rules that Steve laid out do not actually put pressure on people
To paraphrase what someone else said, "If a person is saying you're pressuring them, it's not your place to say you aren't"
- btilly 10y agoThe correct form of that is that if someone says that they are under pressure, it's not your place that they aren't. However people both can be and are frequently dishonest with themselves about WHERE pressure is coming from. The challenge with Steve's rules is that people have to fight defensive behavior within themselves. If you believe that Steve will use your actions against you, it is really hard to follow his rules. If everyone follows his rules with trust that things will work well, following them is easy and things work well. If you can't trust him, then you don't belong in that organization. But given what I know about him from years of observation at a distance, he means what he says and says what he means. I do not believe that he will use people's actions against them. And it would quickly not work out for him if he did.