My advice is to use a calendar app to remind you of things so you don't forget/cancel. Schedule a weekly date night and a monthly date weekend. You need a bre

My advice is to use a calendar app to remind you of things so you don't forget/cancel. Schedule a weekly date night and a monthly date weekend. You need a break as much as she needs time with you, so it works out pretty well. Try to make time you spend together high quality time (i.e. don't be on your iPhone checking e-mail/facebook, don't just sit on the couch and watch TV. Go to a concert, go on a picnic, take scuba lessons.) These are things that have really helped with my wife and startup fighting for time and attention.