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With relationships, it's always hard to give advice. Really, you need to talk to your partner, and basically make sure she is willing to tell you when she is co
by jrussbowman 16y ago
With relationships, it's always hard to give advice. Really, you need to talk to your partner, and basically make sure she is willing to tell you when she is complaining, and when she is putting her foot down.
My wife is due at the end of June, as a result I've spent maybe 10 hours in the past 2 months on my project because she's wanted me to spend more time with her and our other child. It is what it is.
Prioritize is all I can suggest. Which is more important to you, the project you are bootstrapping or your relationship. In my case, the day our first child was born I realized that everything I did from that point was to make my family happy, so that's helped put priority into perspective. Wealth will make them happy sure, but they also need a husband and father to fulfill those roles as well.
One idea I can offer is, get her involved in the project in some way, if you can. My wife has little to no interest in anything technical, she's an event planner and right now just bartending so she can spend more time with the kid(s). I tried, wasn't really an option in my case. If you have better luck, then those long hours you put into your project could be something you're doing together.
- Concours 16y agoThanks for the advice, I'll try it, maybe getting more feedback from her, but she hates computers and smartphones, I guess, I'm spending too much time with both.