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Also, looking for a relationship specifically to solve a habit problem is not a good idea. People in relationships can do a lot to support their partners habit
by afarrell 10y ago
Also, looking for a relationship specifically to solve a habit problem is not a good idea. People in relationships can do a lot to support their partners habit changes, but it is unhealthy to try to take responsibility for someone else's habits. It is likewise unhealthy to expect someone else to take that responsibility.
- meric 10y agoLooking for a relationship to fulfil desire for opposite sex, I think, is a legitimate reason to look for relationships. It's akin to the man is drinking engine oil to quench his thirst, asking how to stop drinking engine oil. We don't say "Drinking water specifically to stop bad habits is not a good idea". IMHO anyway.
- Arizhel 10y agoThe habit problem is very likely to be caused by the lack of a relationship in the first place. Sex and intimate relationships are a normal human need, so of course people are going to turn to substitutes when they don't have this.