Also, I had to get clear on my arrogance on where I would work. I took a job with eBay, and would not have considered it before. But, they are extremely family

Also, I had to get clear on my arrogance on where I would work. I took a job with eBay, and would not have considered it before. But, they are extremely family friendly: three months paternity leave is incredible. Make sure you aren't trading the Kafkaesque options package at a startup for a less glamorous workplace and an opportunity to spend quality time with an even more confusing, but ultimately rewarding, two year old.