You should check out a little book call 'Conspicuous Compassion' by Patrick West - he elaborates on your second point there quite eloquently. Also it's just str

You should check out a little book call 'Conspicuous Compassion' by Patrick West - he elaborates on your second point there quite eloquently. Also it's just straight up hilarious in parts, to this day I still ask people if they've ever worn a 'Brown Ribbon'.