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Sorry to hear you're about to get a divorce. Here's some unsolicited, opinionated advice from my position of ignorance, take it with a grain of salt: If she w
by emiliobumachar 10y ago
Sorry to hear you're about to get a divorce.
Here's some unsolicited, opinionated advice from my position of ignorance, take it with a grain of salt:
If she wants to stay at home, let her. But make it clear you're happy with your job as is, and wants to be part of your child's life. Find some not-childcare-related housework that she can take off your hands to keep things fair. Preferably something you don't like anyway.
- thrownblown 10y agoObviously there's more to it than just the home/work life. But that's a big part. I would be AOK with "letting" her stay home, although there's no letting this woman do anything, she does everything for herself just fine, thanks. She decided that she needed to continue her career to achieve her life goals of owning a home, paying for our child's college, those sorts of things. TBH she's probably right, I'm a bit more "anarchy and freedom is what i want" and value my time and agency over money.