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You don't think having a job helps you when the person you are interested in is deciding whether they are interested back?
by jimhefferon 10y ago
You don't think having a job helps you when the person you are interested in is deciding whether they are interested back?
- ams6110 10y agoParticularly women evaluating men. In general, women see the ability to protect and provide as desireable qualities in a mate.
- kstoneman 10y agoI'm past dating age (and anyway I have a relationship that has survived 20 years), but when I was younger, I never considered what the woman would bring to the relationship financially. I'm very traditional, though, so perhaps this attitude is no longer as common as it was when I was younger.
- jimhefferon 10y agoIn popular American culture in our time, there is not an emphasis on what the partner brings to the relationship financially. I also did not think much about my wife's earning power (or at least, not explicitly, although we met in college so there is some same-class-ness happening there). But I think that is not typical of cultures across space and time. Just ask Jane Austen. :-)