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The number one thing you need is practice. The number two thing is feedback. Various clubs (Toastmasters is the most widespread one) can provide that. But don'
by GavinMcG 10y ago
The number one thing you need is practice. The number two thing is feedback.
Various clubs (Toastmasters is the most widespread one) can provide that. But don't discount the benefit of preparing a speech and delivering it over and over again, even to no one. Filming yourself can provide the feedback component.
I think "Thank You For Arguing" [0] is a good resource on persuasion broadly. Some of the same things that work on a person-to-person level also apply to a speaker-to-audience relationship, and the book goes into both areas.
American Rhetoric has a library of audio recordings from "great speeches" [1]. Listen, and imitate the things you like.
Finally, more than anything else, I'd actually recommend taking improv comedy/improv theater classes. They taught me two things: that not knowing what you're going to say next is totally fine, and that the audience is on your side and wants you to succeed. Knowing both of those things in your bones before you take the stage makes everything so much easier.
[0] https://www.amazon.com/Thank-You-Arguing-Revised-Updated/dp/0385347758/ https://www.amazon.com/Thank-You-Arguing-Revised-Updated/dp/...
[1] http://www.americanrhetoric.com/top100speechesall.html http://www.americanrhetoric.com/top100speechesall.html
- ghaff 10y agoIn addition to feedback from people, it's really useful to take video (which is easy these days) and carefully watch it. It really makes you aware of distracting habits and verbal tics. I have an interview style podcast and editing makes me very aware of verbal tics in both myself and others. You may find it easier to record yourself while speaking to others though. At least for me, just talking into a camera in my office can feel very awkward. ADDED: I have taken courses through my employer a couple of times. They've been useful but I agree with everyone else that observing others who you think do a good job, practice, and feedback are generally more useful than taking a course as such. I wouldn't dissuade someone from taking a course but don't go in expecting to learn the magic formula.
- hubatrix 10y agoThank you ghaff, I'll try observing my successful colleagues, and record more of myself and analyze.
- hubatrix 10y agoThanks a lo GavinMcG, these are really helpful. let me start and give you an update in a month or two on where I stand :)