Yes I did feel obligated to go, they were always outside of work hours. The worst part was: it was an awesome team. But when I was working, I always have 110%

Yes I did feel obligated to go, they were always outside of work hours. The worst part was: it was an awesome team. But when I was working, I always have 110% - and by the end of the day I was tired. I wanted to go home and relax - being in a crowded, noisy bar was the LAST place I wanted to be. I felt it always came off as anti-social, but I was really just tired. Events outside work hours and the associated obligation to go was my #1 annoyance about working a full time job