I'm really sorry you feel that way. That's not how you accept responsibility, that's how you shift the blame back to the aggrieved person and piss them off som

I'm really sorry you feel that way. That's not how you accept responsibility, that's how you shift the blame back to the aggrieved person and piss them off some more. I don't have any strong feelings in this situation, just pointing out a place where can save you plenty of problems down the road: apologize unreservedly or not at all. For a better take try this: I'm sorry I came across like this, I meant better than that.