I go to less than half of happy hours or other team "outings." That way I'm not cast as "anti-social" and I don't let people start to expect me to go to each o

I go to less than half of happy hours or other team "outings." That way I'm not cast as "anti-social" and I don't let people start to expect me to go to each one. Useful excuses coughliescough - a simple, "sorry, I already have plans." - friend or family member in from out of town - oh, I've got <some exercise class or hobby> tonight