> It's applying a victim card on top of asshole behavior. Well, we're all in a sense victims of what our environment did to our tabula rasa to make us who we a

> It's applying a victim card on top of asshole behavior. Well, we're all in a sense victims of what our environment did to our tabula rasa to make us who we are (for better and worse). All humans have flaws (insecurity among them). Mistreating others is never an excusable way to conduct ourselves. I do not intend to give anyone a pass. FYI I think it's necessary to point out that brash behavior can have its origin in insecurity, since many seem to assume it has its origin in competence and frustration with others' incompetence.