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Job and other tips I learned the hard way (still making some mistakes): Rule #1: Negotiate from a position of strength. Fact #1: We tend to negotiate badly wh
by ak39 10y ago
Job and other tips I learned the hard way (still making some mistakes):
Rule #1: Negotiate from a position of strength.
Fact #1: We tend to negotiate badly when we are desperate. Human nature.
Fact #2: Desperation is a state of mind. You can really be in dire circumstances but keep a calm mind. This can be learned. I know stoic folks who are cool as ice when negotiating at the precipice of existence! Super men! (This is where I fail many times.)
Fact #3: (Certainly my experience) When we quit one job summarily without alternative options already lined up, we are likely to create a desperate mindset. It creeps into our attitude and plants the seeds for exploitation. Avoid this as a rule no matter how shitty things get. Plan B first, then quit.
My advice to you is find another job but don't expect it to be better. Plan your Plan B while there.
Best of luck, bro/sis. Employers can be ruthless sometimes.
I would take some time during the next job seeking stage to do stuff I like. Travel? Perspective comes with distance.
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- rajeshmr 10y agoWoah Bro! :) That was awesome advice. I am aware of the desperation that sets in when we don't have a plan B. But I am resisting such a state of mind. I believe sometimes when you let go, your mind calms down and starts facing the facts. Same here, would love to travel and take a break. :) For now as you have said, would take up another job and start planning my exit from the rat race. :) Hope I will get my ticket soon :)
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