One of the hardest, hardest, hardest things in life is deciding what makes us happy. People don't spend nearly enough time looking at themselves and really dee

One of the hardest, hardest, hardest things in life is deciding what makes us happy. People don't spend nearly enough time looking at themselves and really deeply trying to understand what they want out of life. It's scary because you are supposed to "know" what you want. Most people think it just shows up one day randomly. No, it doesn't. You need to work as hard on yourself and your motivations as you do on everything else. Read some books on motivation, do some meditating, start a project you are interested in, learn a new skill, learn a new sport, volunteer, read more books....just keep looking and looking until you figure it out. Unfortunately, it can take a long time. Part of it might be learning to be content and happy with what you have already. Part of it might be your career. Part of it might be your social/family life. Whatever it is, you have to figure it out.