Fear of death. Fear of ill health. Fear of the loss of love. Fear of poverty. Fear of old age. Fear of criticism. If you only have 4 or 5 of the fears, th

Fear of death. Fear of ill health. Fear of the loss of love. Fear of poverty. Fear of old age. Fear of criticism. If you only have 4 or 5 of the fears, then you are already ahead. Squash the rest. ---- I'm glad you admitted you want a gf. I purposefully left that out in my comments above, but we caught each other's vibe. Wanting a gf also isn't specific. Children or intercourse, intimacy, etc are actually measurable.