First, you seem to have unrealistic expectations. These things are usually a triangle in all jobs as they force competing goals. Put labels on an isosceles tr

First, you seem to have unrealistic expectations. These things are usually a triangle in all jobs as they force competing goals. Put labels on an isosceles triangle: Money, Purpose (work you can be proud of, changes the world) and Challenge (work that pushes you, is interesting or complex). Then decide were you would be the most happy. Lots of people leave high paying jobs to work on somewhere with purpose. Others work in a job that barely tolerate for the financial gain. If you can't find anything that has the balance you want, then I'd suggest you temporarily choose a Money only focus and save as much as you can, then go start your own business so you can control the balance completely. You may find that your perspective changes quite a bit when you have to start making hard decisions.