I took a diversity week class and the ethics were eye opening. One takeaway was either never give your team/entity anything or always give them exactly the sam

I took a diversity week class and the ethics were eye opening. One takeaway was either never give your team/entity anything or always give them exactly the same thing. Money is always preferred Examples in class were: "Define fairness and equality." "Mary's child is sick and requested to work from home for 2 months. " what do you do as boss and what do you think as coworker?