>But, I don't have the charisma of a director/VP/CEO of a large scale company. Confidence might come after you get good at doing something. To be confident wit

>But, I don't have the charisma of a director/VP/CEO of a large scale company. Confidence might come after you get good at doing something. To be confident without any supporting experience that you will succeed is to be delusional. Plenty of successful people are not confident in what they do. It's just a feeling. If you wait to feel confident about doing something before you do it, you're waiting when you could be doing. Also, you may be cargo-culting personality traits of people that are in the position you want to be in. The causal relationship may point the other way. Their charisma is a result of their position of power, and their practice navigating it's use.