On one hand you are right, but on the other I've seen this argument used soooo many times in my life by people who didn't leave you another chance. And if one c

On one hand you are right, but on the other I've seen this argument used soooo many times in my life by people who didn't leave you another chance. And if one can believe the content of the open letter, it also says that they already tried multiple times to discuss this in private. Communication always has two sides. And if one side is not willing you can't just blame the other side.