I don't think you understood the point, I am not arguing against that. I am arguing that these "superstars" are not important because they are so rare compared

I don't think you understood the point, I am not arguing against that. I am arguing that these "superstars" are not important because they are so rare compared to the increased number of partners they can have. They are, as a group, less competition for an average person than middle class people who mostly have from zero to a small number of partners but are very numerous.