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> You were offended by a gift? If I give an observant Jew a kilo of bacon as a gift, why shouldn't they be offended by my being an arsehole? Same thing.
by rodgerd 10y ago
> You were offended by a gift?
If I give an observant Jew a kilo of bacon as a gift, why shouldn't they be offended by my being an arsehole?
Same thing.
- grzm 10y agoIf the gift was specifically chosen for the individual, yeah, I can see being offended. In my experience, once companies reach a certain size, gifts are purchased and given in a one-size-fits-all manner. Inconsiderate, perhaps, but likely not intended to offend.
- jaxn 10y agoIt was a team of 7. Including the two founders.
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- rodgerd 10y agoIf you work for a company that has "reached a certain size", you should be aware that you'll have groups of people that make certain one-size-fits-all gifts inappropriate. Like pork products or alcohol in any country with a non-trivial number of Jews and Muslims.
- judah 10y agoJew here. I wouldn't be offended. I'd thank the person, then find someone who could use it. And if the person knew I kept kosher but still offered the bacon, I would laugh it off and then donate it. Being easily-offendable is not a virtue. Being gracious is.