I'm not sure the comment you're replying to has that issue. They said: > Without my partners support I couldn't handle my 60+ hours of high stress work each we

I'm not sure the comment you're replying to has that issue. They said: > Without my partners support I couldn't handle my 60+ hours of high stress work each week. So within the marriage, they're perfectly happy with the split (or at least that's a reasonable read of their comment). They're saying that if a divorce happened, alimony laws would require them to continue working long hours to keep up their income, even though they lost the partnership benefits of the marriage that make such a workweek possible.