The purpose of alimony is to ensure neither party falls into poverty as a result of the divorce. If your friend is struggling as a software engineer, it's clear

The purpose of alimony is to ensure neither party falls into poverty as a result of the divorce. If your friend is struggling as a software engineer, it's clear he's living above his means. But that's beside the point. My comment wasn't an attempt to engage in discussion. I was simply explaining why (I thought) your comment was being downvoted: it was vague, not very credible sounding, did not support your claim about women, and didn't contribute to the discussion. From your neighboring comment, it's clear you think you're doing a moral service by writing that comment, when (IMO) it's just a poorly written comment. I would be more specific about what in the comment could be improved, but I think you would just reply with "Wut?"