I guess I don't have that kind of loyalty to brand-new co-workers. She seems like she had the reputation and skills to land an interchangeable SRE position wit

I guess I don't have that kind of loyalty to brand-new co-workers. She seems like she had the reputation and skills to land an interchangeable SRE position with good pay. My boss immediately propositioning me as a secondary member of an "open relationship" is creepy enough to outweigh a whole lot of loyalty and/or money. It's commendable to try to fix a dysfunctional work environment, but if the boss essentially drops his pants in front of you and is not fired, things are probably broken beyond repair.